{"id":668,"date":"2026-06-24T10:39:23","date_gmt":"2026-06-24T07:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/?page_id=668"},"modified":"2026-06-24T10:52:58","modified_gmt":"2026-06-24T07:52:58","slug":"probleme-de-dinamica-sexuala-cu-cauza-psihogena-disfunctie-sexuala","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/en\/dificultati-emotionale-si-de-dezvoltare\/probleme-de-dinamica-sexuala-cu-cauza-psihogena-disfunctie-sexuala\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexual dynamics problems with psychogenic causes (sexual dysfunction)"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id668_b0fdd1-ca alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_b0d08f-6a\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Releasing Performance Pressure: Refocusing on Intimacy and Authentic Connection<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e&quot;When intimacy becomes a source of stress, fear of failure, or frustration, the blockage is not in your body, but in the pressure your mind puts on it. Psychogenic sexual dynamics problems are your nervous system&#039;s response to anxiety, unresolved trauma, or unrealistic standards. Therapy offers you a safe, nonjudgmental space to dissolve these psychological blockages and regain a natural, relaxed, and fulfilling intimate life.&quot;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-theme-palette-1-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/en\/contact\/\">You don&#039;t have to go through this alone. Let&#039;s talk in a safe environment.<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_dff5e8-0a\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1376\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1.png\" alt=\"Probleme de dinamic\u0103 sexual\u0103 cu cauz\u0103 psihogen\u0103 (disfunc\u021bie sexual\u0103)\" class=\"wp-image-669\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1.png 1376w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1-300x167.png 300w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1-1024x572.png 1024w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1-768x429.png 768w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala1-18x10.png 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1376px) 100vw, 1376px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table is-style-regular\"><table class=\"has-theme-palette-3-color has-theme-palette-8-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color has-fixed-layout\" style=\"border-width:1px\"><tbody><tr><td>Prevalence:<\/td><td>Estimated time:<\/td><td>Methods:<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>It is estimated that between 30% and 50% of sexual dysfunctions (erectile dysfunction, low libido, anorgasmia) have a major psychogenic component.<\/td><td>Decreased performance anxiety in 3-5 months; restructuring of relational patterns and self-esteem in 6-12 months.<\/td><td>CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) applied in Sexology, Sensory Focus Techniques (Sensate Focus), Mindfulness, Schema Therapy (for fear of vulnerability).<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id668_a0cd61-9a alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_ff540f-5b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_ff540f-5b\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How do psychogenic blockages manifest?<\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_20e6e2-a6\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How does this affect daily life and the couple?<\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id668_fdb60d-2e alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_baacab-af{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_baacab-af > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_baacab-af\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Performance anxiety:<\/strong> You are so obsessed with everything coming out &quot;perfect&quot; or not disappointing your partner that your mind goes into alert mode (fight or flight), blocking your body&#039;s natural reactions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Sudden decrease in libido:<\/strong> Sexual desire disappears seemingly for no reason, being actually buried under chronic stress, mental fatigue, or unresolved conflicts with your partner.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Blockages in reaching orgasm or premature\/delayed ejaculation:<\/strong> The inability to disconnect from critical thoughts during intimacy prevents you from being present in your body and feeling pleasure.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>The &quot;Bystander&quot; Syndrome:<\/strong> Instead of feeling and enjoying, your mind sits &quot;on the edge&quot; and critically analyzes every reaction of your body (<em>\u201e&quot;Is it okay?&quot;, &quot;What if it ends too soon?&quot;\u201d<\/em>).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_753c71-1f{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_753c71-1f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_753c71-1f\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Total avoidance of intimacy:<\/strong> For fear of another &quot;failure&quot;, you start avoiding any form of physical closeness, creating excuses (fatigue, work), which deepens the distance in the couple.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tensions and suspicions in the relationship:<\/strong> Your partner may interpret your avoidance as a lack of attraction, infidelity, or rejection, leading to reproaches, frustration, and mutual isolation.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Dramatic drop in self-esteem:<\/strong> You begin to question your masculinity or femininity, you feel &quot;defective&quot; or guilty, and a deep sense of shame sets in.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Setting up a vicious circle:<\/strong> Fear of failure causes physical failure, and physical failure increases fear for the next time, locking you into a pattern that is hard to break on your own.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How we work together <\/h2>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);}.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap > div:not(.added-for-specificity){grid-column:initial;}.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(4, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap > div:not(.added-for-specificity){grid-column:initial;}}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(4, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap > div:not(.added-for-specificity){grid-column:initial;}.kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id668_705934-3d alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-4-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_a88028-76{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_a88028-76 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_a88028-76\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-progress-bar-container668_cf0ff8-07 .kb-progress-label-wrap{justify-content:space-between;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-progress-bar-container kb-progress-bar-container668_cf0ff8-07 kb-progress-bar-init kb-progress-bar-type-line\"><div class=\"kb-progress-bar kb-progress-bar-668_cf0ff8-07\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Step 1:<\/strong> <strong>Normalization and Pressure Relief (20%):<\/strong> We understand the mechanism by which anxiety blocks the body. We introduce a temporary &quot;ban&quot; on the final act, shifting the focus exclusively to relaxation and non-sexual touch.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_fcd3dd-47\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-progress-bar-container668_29d730-66 .kb-progress-label-wrap{justify-content:space-between;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-progress-bar-container kb-progress-bar-container668_29d730-66 kb-progress-bar-init kb-progress-bar-type-line\"><div class=\"kb-progress-bar kb-progress-bar-668_29d730-66\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Step 2:<\/strong> <strong>Sensory Focus and Reconnection (30%):<\/strong> We use the classic protocol of <em>Sensate Focus<\/em>. We teach the body and mind to reassociate the touch of a partner with safety and raw pleasure, not with the obligation to perform.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_3a24b8-c0\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-progress-bar-container668_dd626c-7d .kb-progress-label-wrap{justify-content:space-between;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-progress-bar-container kb-progress-bar-container668_dd626c-7d kb-progress-bar-init kb-progress-bar-type-line\"><div class=\"kb-progress-bar kb-progress-bar-668_dd626c-7d\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Step 3:<\/strong> <strong>Cognitive Restructuring and Dissolving Shame (35%):<\/strong> We identify and dismantle rigid sexual myths, fears of rejection, or past traumas that sabotage your present.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_d34a17-17{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_d34a17-17 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_d34a17-17\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-progress-bar-container668_932265-2d .kb-progress-label-wrap{justify-content:space-between;}<\/style><div class=\"kb-progress-bar-container kb-progress-bar-container668_932265-2d kb-progress-bar-init kb-progress-bar-type-line\"><div class=\"kb-progress-bar kb-progress-bar-668_932265-2d\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Step 4:<\/strong> <strong>Couple Integration and Authenticity (15%):<\/strong> We develop open and assertive communication with our partner about needs and vulnerabilities, establishing a free, stable and fulfilling intimate dynamic.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_23ff09-32 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_23ff09-32 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_23ff09-32 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 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1rem);}.kadence-column668_370162-e6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_370162-e6 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_370162-e6 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_370162-e6{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_370162-e6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_370162-e6 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_370162-e6\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201e&quot;Self-Help&quot; &amp; Practical Tips \u2013 &quot;10 Practical Tips for Reducing Blockages&quot;\u201d<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 2fr) minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 2fr) minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id668_d1768e-59 alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-left-golden kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_0e4b72-73 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_0e4b72-73\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.wp-block-kadence-iconlist.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85:not(.this-stops-third-party-issues){margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-iconlist.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 ul.kt-svg-icon-list:not(.this-prevents-issues):not(.this-stops-third-party-issues):not(.tijsloc){margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);margin-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-iconlist.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 ul.kt-svg-icon-list{grid-row-gap:5px;}.wp-block-kadence-iconlist.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 .kb-svg-icon-wrap{font-size:29px;}.wp-block-kadence-iconlist.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 ul.kt-svg-icon-list .kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap .kt-svg-icon-list-single{margin-right:10px;}.kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 ul.kt-svg-icon-list .kt-svg-icon-list-level-0 .kt-svg-icon-list-single svg{font-size:20px;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-iconlist kt-svg-icon-list-items kt-svg-icon-list-items668_566d95-85 kt-svg-icon-list-columns-1 alignnone\"><ul class=\"kt-svg-icon-list\"><style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_5fa602-52 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_5fa602-52\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Stop monitoring (Exit spectator role):<\/strong> When you notice your mind asking questions during intimacy, gently bring your attention back to a warm physical sensation: your partner&#039;s breath, the texture of their skin, or their smell.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_6e6062-4e .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_6e6062-4e\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Redefine intimate success:<\/strong> Intimacy isn&#039;t just about the final act or orgasm. Redefine a successful encounter through the level of connection, caresses, laughter, and relaxation experienced together.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_1340d6-49 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_1340d6-49\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Practice abdominal breathing:<\/strong> Anxiety shortens your breath and contracts the wrong muscles. Taking a few deep breaths before and during the approach tells your brain that you are safe.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_6cfbc0-d6 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_6cfbc0-d6\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Talk openly, but outside the bedroom:<\/strong> Don&#039;t discuss blockages or frustrations in bed right after a tense moment. Approach the topic over a walk or over coffee, from a team perspective (<em>\u201e&quot;The two of us against the problem&quot;\u201d<\/em>).<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_7ba9d5-e8 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_7ba9d5-e8\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Use the &quot;Sensate Focus&quot; technique at home:<\/strong> Set aside evenings where you take turns massaging or touching each other, with your eyes closed, with the clear rule that the interaction is not allowed to turn into sex. This completely eliminates anxiety.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_d51da0-ae .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_d51da0-ae\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Manage everyday stress:<\/strong> The brain cannot differentiate between job stress and a life-threatening situation. If you are mentally exhausted, your hormonal system will automatically shut down reproductive\/sexual functions.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_727f68-53 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_727f68-53\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Dispels the myths about pornography\/social media:<\/strong> Intimate reality is not a directed, edited, and unrealistic movie. Accept your body and its natural rhythm, without comparing yourself to false industrial standards.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_191bae-e4 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_191bae-e4\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Ground yourself in the senses (Grounding):<\/strong> Use ambient music in the background, dim lights, or aromatic oils to provide the mind with pleasant stimuli to distract it from anxious thoughts.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_ce8ec5-56 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_ce8ec5-56\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Take your time:<\/strong> Allow plenty of time for foreplay and emotional intimacy. The more relaxed and gradually warmed up your body is, the easier your physical reflexes will work.<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n<style>.kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_779e0c-13 .kt-svg-icon-list-text mark.kt-highlight{background-color:unset;font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}<\/style>\n<li class=\"wp-block-kadence-listitem kt-svg-icon-list-item-wrap kt-svg-icon-list-item-668_779e0c-13\"><span class=\"kb-svg-icon-wrap kb-svg-icon-fe_userCheck kt-svg-icon-list-single\"><svg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\"  fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-width=\"2\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"  aria-hidden=\"true\"><path d=\"M16 21v-2a4 4 0 0 0-4-4H5a4 4 0 0 0-4 4v2\"\/><circle cx=\"8.5\" cy=\"7\" r=\"4\"\/><polyline points=\"17 11 19 13 23 9\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"kt-svg-icon-list-text\"><strong>Don&#039;t let the problem become chronic:<\/strong> Shame makes people wait years before asking for help. <strong>I&#039;m waiting for you at the office.<\/strong> (alone or as a couple) to walk this sensitive path with gentleness and complete confidentiality.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column668_fa9938-dd > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column668_fa9938-dd\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"506\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala-2-506x1024.png\" alt=\"Probleme de dinamic\u0103 sexual\u0103 cu cauz\u0103 psihogen\u0103 (disfunc\u021bie sexual\u0103)\" class=\"wp-image-670\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala-2-506x1024.png 506w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala-2-148x300.png 148w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala-2-6x12.png 6w, https:\/\/elenapap.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/dinamica-sexuala-2.png 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 506px) 100vw, 506px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div data-wp-context=\"{ &quot;autoclose&quot;: true, &quot;accordionItems&quot;: [] }\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/accordion\" role=\"group\" class=\"wp-block-accordion is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-is-layout-flow\" style=\"padding-top:10px;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:10px;padding-left:0\">\n<div data-wp-class--is-open=\"state.isOpen\" data-wp-context=\"{ &quot;id&quot;: &quot;accordion-item-1&quot;, &quot;openByDefault&quot;: false }\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initAccordionItems\" data-wp-on-window--hashchange=\"callbacks.hashChange\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-item is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-item-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading\"><button aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"accordion-item-1-panel\" data-wp-bind--aria-expanded=\"state.isOpen\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.toggle\" data-wp-on--keydown=\"actions.handleKeyDown\" id=\"accordion-item-1\" type=\"button\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle\" style=\"padding-top:0;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:0;padding-left:0\"><span class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle-title\">FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions):<\/span><span class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\">+<\/span><\/button><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div inert aria-labelledby=\"accordion-item-1\" data-wp-bind--inert=\"!state.isOpen\" id=\"accordion-item-1-panel\" role=\"region\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-panel is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-panel-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: How do I know if my problem is medical or psychological?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>A:<\/strong> The simplest indicator is the presence of involuntary physiological reactions (for example, morning or night erections in men, or the ability to feel arousal\/orgasm through masturbation, in solitude). If in moments of solitude the body functions perfectly, but only freezes in the presence of a partner, the cause is almost certainly psychogenic (anxiety, pressure). We recommend, however, an initial urological\/gynecological check-up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: My partner thinks I don&#039;t love him or am no longer attracted to him. How do I explain this to him?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>A:<\/strong> This is a common reaction. Explain that the blockage is like a &quot;power outage&quot; caused by your mind being overworked (anxiety, stress), not a lack of feelings. Tell him clearly: <em>\u201e&quot;My body is blocked by fear and pressure, but the desire to be close to you is there. 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